Ever poured your heart out? Chased someone so incredibly hard that you literally felt as if you were running out of the air you breathe? Then you realize after some time you can never have that person your heart desires? I know that I have, but also on the flip side knowing I have been guilty of hurting others as well.
Am I not good enough? Am I not attractive enough? Am I not smart enough? Questions we have always asked ourselves, but why? Why do we do this to ourselves? Why do we as humans always question our own self worth?
“Love is PATIENT, Love is Kind…“
Majority of people become filled with bitterness, anger and pain when love is not reciprocated to them. We go through what I like to call the motion of emotions, also known as the 5 stages of grief.
Denial – “They still love me, they just need some time to realize it”
Anger – “Who the fuck do they think they are?”
Bargaining – “Well maybe I will change myself for them”
Depression – “Why am I not good enough?”
and finally Acceptance.
You want to know what? YOU ARE WORTHY! You are so fucking worthy of A LOVE so DEEP, A LOVE that’s TRUE and A LOVE that’s REAL. A love that will make your HEART BEAT OUT OF YOUR DAMN FUCKING CHEST. One day, one damn day you will cross paths with the right person. Until then why force what is not meant to be?
“You are SO WORTHY of a LOVE that’s DEEP“
Do you believe in the Universe? If you do, listen carefully. It will tell you many things about Love. Sometimes it sends you warm fuzzy feelings, other times it tells you that it just wasn’t meant to be. Sometimes the timing is off and if it is meant to be then the universe will magically align the stars, the moon and that path. GOD, that damn path. That path that we all dream about, that path that we all want, that path that leads us to our Happily Ever After…
“Twinkle twinkle little star, how I wonder where thou are?…“
Once all the rainbows have faded, the twinkling stars clear up and the pain in your chest comes to a halt. This thing called reality kicks in. The realization that It just wasn’t meant to be. You know what? I promise you that it is OK and you will be OK. You are not everyone’s cup of tea BUT You are your own blend.
Don’t ever stop BELIEVING, don’t ever stop BELIEVING you are WORTHY! Don’t ever stop BELIEVING you are AMAZING, because ONE DAY… one damn day SOMEONE will cross your path and it will all make sense as to why you never gave up! You have now become that special person to someone who can’t stop smiling because of YOU. Someone who wakes up and sleeps to the thought of YOU. You will be the reason why their heart beats out of their chest. YOU will be their reason to why they NEVER GAVE UP but most importantly YOU will be “Just the right cup of tea…“