FROM THE VERY FIRST DAY I CROSSED PATHS WITH YOU, YOUR APPEARANCE TURNED MY HEAD BUT YOUR HEART AND THE PURITY OF YOUR SOUL IS WHAT HAS ALWAYS KEPT ME THERE. THAT AS PARALLEL AS I FELT TO YOUR LIFE, I KNEW I HAD TO HOLD BACK BECAUSE THE TIMING WAS JUST NOT RIGHT.
I have dreams, I have goals, there is no mission I can not accomplish when I put my mind to it. I have always been in control of my life, or at least to the best of my capabilities but one thing I have never had THE POWER over was whom my heart was drawn to…
My career and success in life had always been placed first and as I believed without stability, our lives had no sense of direction. I had never chased anyone for LOVE because I believed that people would come into my life when the timing was right. The truth is for majority of my past relationships, I had been pursued and just eventually gave in to them and their temptations.
All I knew was LOVE was on the bottom of my list, that as romantic and emotional as I could be, the further down my focus was from it, the less likelihood I could ever be hurt. That “wall” that had always been placed high was because it too protected my heart from ever being hurt.
As much as we have ever had our share of breakups, I was always over all my relationships quickly because my own self worth had told me it wasn’t worth it. As controlled and strong of a woman that I had always been in my life, the one thing it failed in preparing me for, was meeting someone that I was falling for, but could not have.
Do you believe that TIMING is everything? I do. That as much as others would walk away from this situation or lose patience from this all, my soul told me, I just couldn’t walk away from you.
I believe timing is everything, that the universe plays a major role in how things are laid out through our journey. I never believed in forcing anything but if it was meant to be then the stars, the moon and that universe would align it as it should be organically and things would occur.
Do you understand everyone has a journey through life and that all journeys vary based on each individuals situation? If you genuinely and truthfully believed this, then you would know to never pressure or rush someone to experience what they are meant to experience through this lifetime.
If that individual really meant something to you, and you adored that person to pieces then you would know it was not your place to pass poor judgement on someone who had limited control throughout their own journey and challenges of life.
Relationships are a beautiful thing, as I have always said they complement our already completed lives and are an add-on to our already existing happiness. The human heart is such a precious thing and at times not controlled to whom it wants in life. A perfect world would mean we got all that we wanted, but truthfully not always the case.
The problem today is too many become too scorn so quickly over something that isn’t controlled at times. The minute they do not get what they want, the moment they do not have their way, they will become the most miserable person in your life. The problem? too many people live a FAKE LOVE.
Do you understand that the true and real foundation of any relationship consists of two people placed together in this lifetime, in an organic way if it is to be. That sometimes we crossed each other’s path and for whatever reason still ended up apart. I always believed if the universe had more planned for you two, that no matter what distance or time apart, you both would magically be drawn back together on the same path again and this time at the “right time“
Even when the sky comes falling…
Even when the sun don’t shine…
I got faith in YOU and I…
So put your pretty little hand in mine…
As heart broken as you could ever be left hanging, you would also know it didn’t matter because all you felt was that you were blessed that the universe had placed this person on your path and that no matter what, all you would ever want was the best for them and their happiness, with, or without you.
The universe has a reason for connecting us to many people, and many are put on our journey but not all are meant to stay. The people we connect through our journey with, are either there to teach us a lesson or to show us a new experience. That person that you want so bad, but couldn’t have, had lost trust in others based off their past experiences or fear. Then YOU drop on their path to teach them, they could trust again because you showed them, that not everyone was like their past.
You must learn to understand that we can not always have what we want, when we want, whether in relationships, career or simply just life. I believe many are put on our journey but if someone touched you in such a way, why would you let them go even if it wasn’t going your way. Because you must learn that love is patient and that love is kind, and that no matter what, you must be appreciative for having your heart touched in any way.
You MUST learn to be understanding, you MUST learn to appreciate, you MUST learn that your journey has a plan for you, but most importantly you MUST always learn to trust in your universe that he knows which way.
Do you BELIEVE that TIMING is everything in life? That sometimes your SOUL just knows? Drop me a comment below and let me know your thoughts on this topic. #yaimsharon